In May 2018, Anna-Retha Rafferty's life underwent a significant transformation when she welcomed her second child, a daughter, into the world. As with many new mothers, Anna found herself balancing the delights and difficulties of parenthood, often feeling somewhat restricted by the confines of home life. She recognized that she needed to do something for herself, to rediscover her long-standing sporting passions and to establish her identity beyond motherhood. Previously an active athlete, having participated in sports such as hockey, tennis, netball, softball, athletics, and rowing during her school and university years in South Africa, Anna decided to take up golf in September 2018 and joined the Jumeirah Golf Estates golf club in January 2019. With no prior experience, she enrolled in ladies' group lessons and started to master the nuances of the game. She quickly became enamored with the sport, finding solace in the rhythm of her swing and the serene atmosphere of the golf course. "I committed myself to learning and embracing every lesson with zeal," Anna remarked, acknowledging that golf swiftly became her sanctuary and passion outside of home life. "Just as I was beginning to relish the game, the world was struck by the COVID-19 pandemic. While the initial lockdowns posed challenges, they also afforded me the opportunity to play more golf. By this time, I began to realize that the sport meant more to me than merely being a hobby." Being a member of the JGE provided a sense of belonging and allowed her to connect with other lady golfers who shared her fervor. The camaraderie and support from fellow players became a cherished part of her life, inspiring her to surpass her limits. So when Lady Captains Evelyn Downham and Sheila McIlroy inquired if she would like to assume the captaincy, Anna agreed without hesitation and dedicated herself to fostering a spirit of collaboration and encouragement within the ladies' group. "At our club, we believe that golf is not just about handicaps; it's about nurturing community and having fun," says Anna. "We are committed to getting more women involved in the sport through engaging events like our 'Nine & Wine' afternoons, offering full-course opportunities, and creating diverse competitions. Our aim is to empower women to embrace golf with confidence, making it a welcoming environment where everyone can have fun together." "With approximately 140 ladies members, including many families and kids, we may be a small group, but our passion for golf is immense," adds Anna. "We are actively involved in creating a vibrant community." She regularly meets with Noel O'Leary, the Men’s Club Captain, to discuss strategies for boosting membership numbers, enhancing competitions, and increasing the fun aspect of golf. Together, they are dedicated to making their club a welcoming and engaging place for everyone. Reflecting on her favorite moments as captain, Anna mentioned the Captain's Drive-In Day as truly special. "It was an extraordinary day spent with the members, and being there to support them and celebrate my journey filled me with joy," she says. "The clubhouse has become a second home for us, especially since we live in JGE and frequently see each other. It’s these connections that make our ladies' club meaningful." Now, halfway through her term, Anna stands as an inspiration to others, embodying the idea that it’s never too late to rekindle one's sporting desires even after childbirth. As she continues to navigate the path of motherhood and golf, Anna is a testament to the transformative power of pursuing one’s passion at any stage in life. "I would like people to remember me as a welcoming, warm, and fun-loving person," she says. "I want to create an inclusive environment where every member feels valued and enjoys their time together." While Anna's golf and captaincy skills have undoubtedly improved, her mindset has transformed even more profoundly. She exemplifies resilience and focus, embodying the true meaning of living a fulfilling life with grace and determination. Her journey is a powerful reminder that no obstacle can prevent you from following your heart's desires.
Text: Lara Palmer
25.09.2024
How a South African mother rediscovered her sporting passion and transformed her life through golf.